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Sent: Saturday, August 07, 2004 9:19
PM
Subject: Language vs communication
Ah, I see. Thank you, John M, for the
clarification.
Apparently we have been an unwitting object lesson in how painful
it is to be misunderstood and how easy it is to misunderstand. Hopefully we
can also serve to illustrate that it can also be rebalanced.
I think my biggest problem with communication is that I try so
hard to say what I mean and mean what I say; with precision... as
well as taking extra time to work to eliminate tactlessness without
eliminating meaning, that to then be misunderstood really throws me
sometimes.
On top of that, I thought you were giving me another treatise on
"political correctness" and I've had a belly full. So, my exasperation was
showing. I see now that it was unwarranted and I apologize.
Judith